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Where should a man touch a woman to get her cum?

There are just a handful from women that can cum while a man is inside her.  Some are able to let go easier than others and use their minds for stimulation and some are not.  Some just need the physical stimulation to get off.  This does not mean just having a toy or a man inside of her is going to get her off...were talking direct stimulation here ladies and gentlemen...Yes...the clit... 

Any woman is able to orgasm quickly when she’s being fondled during penetration. Sensations from penetration and fondling combine, leading to an intense orgasm that will leave her stunned. So where should a man touch a woman to get her off fast? Some women prefer breast stroking, while some women like torrid kissing, but the true secret to a quick orgasm is clitoral touching during sex.

However, doing this is easier said than done. The usual sex positions (like missionary) require you to use one or both hands to balance. Some men also find it difficult to do another task when foreplay is over and sex is in full swing. A remedy to this is to get into sex positions that allows touching of the clitoris without much effort on the guy’s part. You can also get into a sex position that will make it easier for the woman to reach her clitoris and stimulate herself without getting too tired.

Here are three sex positions that will do the trick.

Coital Alignment
Despite the technical term for this sex position, it’s pretty simple. The man lies directly on top of the woman and penetration angle is similar to that in the missionary position. However, in the coital alignment position, a man’s pubic region is pressed against the woman’s. This makes it seem like he’s grinding or rocking to and fro, rather than pulling in and out. The rhythmic grinding on the woman’s clitoris will induce orgasm quickly. One more benefit to this technique is that you can kiss her lips and moan into her ear while you’re in this position.

Woman On Top
This position will do more than help a woman to reach climax faster, it will increase the intensity of her orgasm. This is much like the coital alignment position but instead of the man being on top, the woman stays on top. The woman can lean her torso forward, arch her back, and keep her crotch in constant contact with the base of his penis or his pubic region. In this position, she can control the rhythm as well as the depth of penetration. Moreover, she can press down on the man’s pubic region so that her clitoris is sensitized by rubbing on his skin.

Doggy Style
In this position, a girl can play with her clitoris all she wants while you penetrate her. Dog style is a sex position that lets the girl touch her body herself with one hand while balancing with the other. She can also free up both hands by balancing with her shoulders and head. If you really want to give your girl the best orgasm of her life, these sex positions I mentioned will help you find a way to touch her clitoris during sex. The clitoris is very sensitive, and any girl will tell you that the clitoris plays a big role to inducing orgasm during masturbation.

Sexual Definitions - Z

ZELOPHILIA: Sexual arousal from jealousy

ZOOERASTIA:Sexual intercourse with an animal

ZOOPHILIA:One who is attracted to animals in a sexual, or emotional sense

ZWISCHENSTUFE:Arousal from a person of the same sex

 

Sexual Definitions - V

YELD: Not old enough to procreate

YONI WORSHIP: Worship of the female

Sexual Definitions - X

XENODYNAMIC: Person who is only potent with strangers

XENOPHILIA: An attraction to foreign customs, traditions, and foreigners

XERONISUS: Inability to reach orgasm

XYLOPHILIA: Turned on by wooden objects

X-frame- A bondage frame in the shape of an "X" in a horizontal position.

Sexual Definitions - W

WHELP: To bear offspring

WHIRLYGIGS: Testicles

WITTOL: A husband who tolerates his wife’s infidelity

Wet Dreams: Erotic imaging during sleep that causes ejaculation.

Withdrawal: Pulling the penis out of the vagina before ejaculation in order to avoid pregnancy.

Withdrawal. A means of birth control which calls for the husband to pull his penis out of his wife's vagina before sexual intercourse reaches the point of his ejaculation. This is considered to be an unreliable means of birth control. Some drops of semen may ooze from the penis before the first spasm of an ejaculation, or the first spasm may come with insufficient warning to permit complete withdrawal before some semen enters the vagina. If semen is ejaculated at the mouth of the vagina, some sperm may swim upstream and unite with an ovum. It only takes one of each to cause a pregnancy.

WHAM BAM.............................................RAPID AND HURRIED SEXUAL ACTIVITY

WIENER.....................................................THE PENIS

WORK OFF................................................TO MASTURBATE

WORK UP...................................................TO CREATE PASSION OR TO BE PASSIONATE

Water sports- Sexual play using urine or enemas.

Whip- Object that can be also a cane, crop, paddle or slapper, or a single or multiple-lash whips to beat a submissive.

Worship- To lavish attention to a body part(Ex: feet.) Also, a role playing attitude toward a dominant.

 

Sexual Definitions - V

VACUUM CLEANER: ONE WHO APPLIES GREAT SUCTION DURING ORAL SEX

VAGINA: ORIFACE OF FEMALE SEX ORGANS

VANILLA SEX: .ANY NON KINKY SEX ACTS

VERSATILE.: BI-SEXUAL

VIRILTY: THE SEXUAL POWER AND CAPACITY OF A MALE

VOYEUR: ONE WHO GAINS SEXUAL SATISFACTION FROM WATCHING OTHERS UNDRESSING OR ENGAGE IN SEXUAL ACTS

Vasectomy: surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to make a man infertile; a method of contraception

Versatile: bisexual. See AC/DC

Vibrator: electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please another

Voluptuous: fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips

Voyeur: a person who enjoys and is stimulated by watching others in sexual acts

Voyeurism: the act of being a voyeur

VACCINOPHILIA: Turned on by becoming vaccinated

VAMPIRISM: Consuming blood of a partner for arousal

VICARPHILIA: Arousal from other people's exciting experiences

VINCILAGNIA: Arousal from bondage

VIRAGINITY: Masculinity in a woman

VIRGIN: You really need to ask?

VIRIMIMISM: Adoption of masculinity

VIRIPOTENT: Sexually mature

VITRICOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to one’s stepfather

Vagina: The stretchable passage that connects a woman's outer sex organs (the vulva) with the cervix and uterus.

Vaginal Intercourse: Sex play in which the penis enters the vagina.

Vaginal Pouch (Female Condom): A polyurethane sheath with flexible rings at each end that is inserted deep into the vagina like a diaphragm. It is an over-the-counter, reversible barrier method of birth control that may provide protection against many sexually transmitted infections.

Vaginismus: Painful intercourse for a woman that occurs when her fear and anxiety about vaginal intercourse cause the muscles around her vagina to go into spasm when her partner tries to insert a penis or dildo.

Vaginitis: An inflammation of the vagina that is caused by a change in the normal balance of vaginal bacteria.

Values: Ideas of what is right, worthwhile, or moral.

Varicocele: An enlargement of the spermatic vein, which supplies blood to the testis. It can reduce blood flow and increase the temperature of the testicle, thereby causing infertility.

Vas Deferens: A long, narrow tube that carries sperm from each epididymis to the seminal vesicles. The plural of vas deferens is vasa deferentia.

Vasectomy: Surgical blocking of the vasa deferentia in men that is intended to provide permanent birth control.

Venereologist: One who studies sexually transmitted infections.

Viability:
The ability of a fetus to survive outside a woman's body.

Virginity: Never having had sexual intercourse.

Voluntary Sterilization: Surgically implemented contraception that is intended to be permanent and that is freely chosen.

Voyeurism: A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on watching people undress or have sex play unaware that they are being watched.

Voyeurs: Women or men who become aroused by secretly watching another person undress or engage in sexual behavior.

Vulva: A woman's external sex organs, including the clitoris, the labia (majora and minora), the opening to the vagina (introitus), and two Bartholin's glands.

Vagina. A channel of moist tissue between the vulva and the mouth of the uterus.

Value-free sex education. Telling students about the biology and mechanics of sex without the Bible's moral absolutes which control sexual behavior.

Viagra. It has been estimated that up to 30 million American men suffer from sexual dysfunction (impotence). Until recently, sexual dysfunction has been effectively treated with injections, surgery, and other procedures, many of which are painful and embarrassing. In March 1998, the FDA announced that Viagra® a new drug from Pfizer, Inc., has been approved as treatment for male sexual dysfunction.

Vibrator. A penis-shaped battery-powered device designed to stimulate the vulva, clitoris, and vagina during foreplay. There is a theory that for some couples, excessive and extended use of a vibrator may make it increasingly difficult for a wife to respond to her husband during non-mechanical foreplay and sexual intercourse. May be useful during impotence. You can buy one on the Internet; just enter dildo or vibrator into any search engine. One with a vibrator should cost about $30 US.] Warning:you may get into some very unsavory sites. Just buy what you are looking for and get out! See dildo.

Virgin. A woman or man who has never had sexual intercourse.

Vulva. The wife's primary external sex organ. The vulva includes two sets of lip-like folds of tissue known as the labia. The inner labia (lips) enclose (from front to back) the clitoris, the urethra (for excreting urine, and the vagina. The outer lips are covered with pubic hair.

Vasectomy. A simple operation on the husband in the doctor's office which acts as a relatively permanent form of birth control. In a vasectomy, the tubes which lead from the testicles to the penis are cut by making small incisions in the scrotum. Because of this operation, the sperm which the testicles create cannot be mixed with the semen during ejaculation. There is no physical reason why the husband cannot continue to have a normal erection during foreplay and cannot enjoy sexual intercourse. The best time for a vasectomy is while the wife is pregnant with the last child. This will give the husband's body time to cleanse itself of all sperm before the first ejaculation during sexual intercourse after the baby is born.

Vinyl- Material used for fetish fashions.

VD/STDs in general: clasp, dose, old Joe, whites, morning dew, a strain, wages (from "wages of sin") gonorrhea: clap, dose, drip

vulva: down there, beaver, crotch, Y-view, the Y, YMCA, lady-lips, money-maker, yoni, pussy, bush or bushland, tush, concha  

vanilla = (1)conventional sexual relations, (2)any sexual interaction that does not
include sadomasochistic/D&S sexual play
vada = to look at or closely examine

Vibrator: Any device that uses batteries or AC current to create a vibration. Most often used by women to stimulate the clitoris.

vas deferens: The ducts leading from the epididymis to the seminal vesicles. These are the ducts that are cut during the procedure known as vasectomy.

Vaginal Atrophy: The thinning, drying and irritation of the vaginal lining in menopausal women.

 

Sexual Definitions - U

Utopian Swinger: a person who practices swinging as a total lifestyle with humanistic ideals

UNDINISM: The association of water with erotic thoughts

URANISM: Homosexuality

URANOPHILIA: Sexual arousal by heavenly thoughts

UROLAGNIA: Sexual pleasure from urinating

URTICATION: The use of nettles to create extra sensation

UXORAVALENT: Only able to attain sex extramaritally (applied to men)

UXOROVALENT: Able to score only with one’s wife

Uncircumcised: Description of a penis that has a foreskin.

Ureters  The two tubes that lead from the kidneys to the bladder.

Urethra: The tube and opening from which women and men urinate. The urethra empties the bladder and carries urine to the urethral opening. In men, the urethra runs through the penis and also carries ejaculate and pre-ejaculate during sex play.

Use-Effectiveness: The reliability of a contraceptive method as it is usually used‹when it is not always used consistently or correctly.

Uterus: The pear-shaped, muscular reproductive organ from which women menstruate and where normal pregnancy develops; the womb.

UTI (Urinary Tract Infection): A bacterial infection of the bladder (also called cystitis), the ureters, or the urethra; can be sexually transmitted.

Uterus: A muscular organ found only in the female in which the baby develops before birth.

URETHA...................................................DUCT WHICH CARRIES URINE AND SEMEN

UROLAGNIA...........................................SEXUAL PLEASURE FROM WATCHING ANOTHER DRINK URINE

Unisex: not pertaining to one sex only. Unisex clothing can be worn by both traditional sexes. A unisex hair salon invites customers of both sexes. Unisexual.

Urethra:The tube and opening from which women and men urinate. The urethra empties the bladder and carries urine to the urethral opening. In men, the urethra runs through the penis and also carries ejaculate and pre-ejaculate during sex play.

Use-Effectiveness: The reliability of a contraceptive method as it is usually used when it is not always used consistently or correctly.

Uterus: The pear-shaped, muscular reproductive organ from which women menstruate and where normal pregnancy develops; the womb.

UTI (Urinary Tract Infection):
A bacterial infection of the bladder (also called cystitis), the ureters, or the urethra; can be sexually transmitted.

Uncircumcised: Description of a penis that has a foreskin.

Ureters:The two tubes that lead from the kidneys to the bladder.

uncircumcised penis: shrouded, capped dick, sheathed, cloaked or using a cloaking device, heathen dick or gentile dick

urethra, meatus: The opening at the tip of the penis to allow the passage of
both urine and semen.

Sexual Definitions - T

Teaz and Denial:Sometimes called "Arouse and Deny" or "Orgasm Denial". This is the process of bringing a male to a state of extreme sexual arousal and then preventing or disallowing his orgasm. Fetishes can be useful to help build his state of arousal. The tease and deny premise underpins the contents of this website. All of a male's most productive training takes place after he has been subjected to this process for an extended period of time. During the process it is often effective to let the male believe that he might be allowed to reach orgasm. Working on this premise, he will be more involved in the process, more eager and ultimately more aroused. The denial process can be overt, such as simply pushing him away right before he ejaculates, or subtle, such as arranging for friends to come over at a certain time thus forcing an interruption.

Testicles. The husband's sex organs which create the sperm and secrete testosterone, the male sex hormone.

Trimester. Three months of a pregnancy, usually expressed as first, second, or third trimester.

Testosterone: A male sex hormone causing the development of the male reproductive system and secondary sex characteristics.

Tumescence: This occurs when the clitoris fills with blood. Also known as "engorgement."

Torture- Painful actions used to enhance sexual pleasure.

Training- Discipline used by the dom to control the sub's behavior, condition and/or attitude. Pony training, anal training, position training, voice command response, etc. can be used for training.

TS,Transsexual- A person that mismatches his/her personal psychology. They go for counseling, hormone treatments and surgery. Before surgery a transsexual is referred as a "pre-op" TS and after surgery is a "post-op" TS.

Transgender: An umbrella term for those who blur the lines of traditional gender expression.

Transsexual: A person who has undergone or is preparing to undergo sex reassignment surgery.

Transvestite: A person who dresses in the clothes and assumes the gender expression of the opposite sex.

TEA ROOM...........................................A PUBLIC MEN'S REST ROOM

TESTICLES............................................THE MALE REPRODUCTIVE GLANDS

THIRD SEX............................................HOMOSEXUALS

TONGUE (VER..................................TO PERFORM ORAL INTERCOURSE

TOOLBOX..............................................THE MALE GENITALS

TRADE....................................................A PASSIVE MALE PROSTITUTE FOR HOMOSEXUALS

TRICK.....................................................A SEX PARTNER

TURN A TRICK.....................................TO TAKE ON A SEX PARTNER FOR MONEY

TRIAD- The most basic and common form of multipartner relationship, consisting of three adult primary partners, usually two of one sex and one of the other.

TERTIARY RELATIONSHIP- A friendly but casual sexualove relationship of an occasional or temporary nature.

TRIBE- An affiliation of families and clans sharing common values, customs and traditions, and regarding themselves as a tribe.

Toy = equipment used in a SM scene. aka, tool, gear, equipment

Top = term references (1)female or male who prefers to dominate or control the act of copulation (usually in the thrusting role), and/or (2)the participant who controls stimuli during sadomasochistic sex games (also termed sadist or dominatrix [females only, and usually for hire]).
switch = (1)person who enjoys playing either/both the bottom-masochist role or the top-sadist role, (2)a bisexual person, (3)a small whip used in B&D activities

testicles: plums, rocks, stones, dingleberries, balls, nuts, jewels or crown jewels or family jewels, potatoes (as in "meat and potatoes" referring to penis and testicles), cojones (Spanish), peaches, oysters

time menstrual discharge: siff, ziff, the bloody, kotex juice
peaches = (1)vulva, (2)breasts, or (3)testicles

tv or TV = transvestite

T & A = "Tits and Ass" usually in reference to displays of the female body (e.g.,
strippers or dancers); often references objectified female sexuality in general

TS or T-person = transsexual; the more current terminology is Transgendered.

Teacher: the dominant role during English scenario

Threesome: three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. Not the same as a "menage a' trois" in that the latter may involve emotional involvement and a continuing relationship

Ticket: a person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the man to gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to swing

Toys: sexual aids. See Marital Aids

Travel: see Can Travel

Triad: three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship of emotional and sexual involvement. not the same as a threesome

Triolism: used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a common but confusing usage. See Triad

Tubal Ligation: surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a woman infertile. A method of contraception. Also called a band aid operation in reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting and ligation

TV: transvestite: a male who enjoys dressing up and impersonating a female

TG: transgender

Tomboy: a girl who prefers the activities, privileges and dress of boys, and avoids female restrictions; sometimes used to describe adult women.

Transgender: a popular cover term designating those not traditionally male or female (i.e., between the genders), including crossdressers, transsexuals, intersexuals, gender dysphorics, and those for whom no label yet exists. Transgendered, transgenderism, transgenderist.

Transsexual: a person who feels his/her gender or identity doesn't match their biological sex ("I am a woman in a man's body" or vice versa). Most live in the desired role. A pre-op or preoperative transsexual is a TS preparing to have genital conversion surgery. A post-op or postoperative TS has had the surgery. Not all transsexuals desire surgery. Many take hormones to make their bodies look more masculine or feminine.

TS: transsexual.

Transvestite: one who occasionally dresses in the clothing of the opposite sex for sexual or emotional pleasure, or both. Can be male or female, hetero- or homosexual, bi- or solosexual, and may partially or wholly crossdress. Some have felt the word is a negative medical term; crossdresser and crossdressing are more commonly used today. Transvestism, tranny.

TV: a transvestite.

TAPHEPHILIA: Arousal from being buried alive

TAPHOPHILIA: Love of funerals

TELEOPHILIA: Affinity for religious ceremonies

TENTIGINOUS: Lascivious

TERATOPHILIA: Arousal from deformed or monstrous people

THALASSOPHILIA: Love of the sea

THASSOPHILIA: Attraction to sitting

THREPTEROPHILIA: A fondness for female nurses

THYGATRILAGNIA: A father’s sexual love for his daughter

TOCOPHILIA: Fondness for pregnancy and childbirth

TONITROPHILIA: Love of thunder

TOXIPHILIA: Attraction to poisons

TOXOPHILIA: Love of archery

TRAGALISM: Lust; lechery; obscenity

TRANSFEMINATE: To change from woman to man

TRAUMATOPHILIA: An unconscious desire to be injured

TRIBADISM: Mutual genital-fondling between lesbians

TRICHOPATHOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to hair

Taboo: Behavior that is beyond the moral limits of cultural norms.

Tenting: The expansion of the inner vagina during sexual excitement.

Testes: Two ball-like glands inside the scrotum that produce sperm.

Testicles: The testes.

Testosterone: An androgen that is produced in the testes of men and in smaller amounts in the ovaries of women.

Thelarche: The time when a girl's breasts begin to develop.

Toxic Shock Syndrome: A rare but very dangerous overgrowth of bacteria in the vagina. Symptoms include vomiting, high fever, diarrhea, and a sunburn-type rash.

Transgender: Women and men who dress in the clothing associated with the other gender because they enjoy being treated as if they were of the other gender‹not for sexual pleasure.

Transsexuals: Women and men who fully identify themselves as the gender other than their biological one.

Transvestites: Women and men who dress in clothing associated with people of the other gender because it gives them sexual pleasure.

Transvestophilia: A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on wearing clothing, especially underwear, associated with the other gender.

Tubal Sterilization: Surgical blocking of the fallopian tubes that is intended to provide permanent birth control.

transsexualist: Someone who promotes or advocates transsexualism

transsexuality: Sexual attraction directed toward playing or mimicking the role of a person of the opposite sex; erotic acts for the purpose of gaining sexual excitement or gratification while pretending to be a person of the opposite sex

testes, testicles: The male sexual glands, the two testes within the scrotum
produce sperm and testosterone. Within each testis is a kilometre of ducts called the seminiferous tubules, the organs which generate sperm. Each testicle produces nearly 150 million sperm every 24 hours.

tea room = a restroom used for hustling and fellacio  

trollop = person interested in indiscriminate sexual interaction

tart = person interested in indiscriminate sexual interaction, often for hire ‘ho (whore) or puta = prostitute

tush = vulva, more particularly including buttocks and/or anus

take it in the ass = (1)receive anal intercourse, (2)to be taken advantage of

twang plums = to arouse or stimulate a male, usually including ejaculation

to be had = (1)to be taken advantage of, or (2)to be the recipient of copulation, usually the unwilling recipient

Sexual Definitions - S

SADISM: SEXUAL STIMULATION ASSOCIATED WITH THE DESIRE TO INFLICT PAIN, PHYSICAL OR MENTAL, ON ANOTHER

SADOMASOCHISM: BOTH SADISM AND MASOCHISM EXISTING IN THE SAME PERSON

SCORE: TO ACHIEVE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

SCREW: THE ACT OF SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

SCROTUM: THE POUCH OR SAC WHICH CONTAINS THE TESTICLES

SEA FOOD: A SAILOR AS A SEX OBJECT

SEMEN: THE FLUID PRODUCED DURING EJACULATION OF THE MALE

SHOOT: TO ACHIEVE ORGASM

SIXTY-NINE: GENITAL ORAL INTERCOURSE PERFORMED ON EACH OTHER.SIMULTANEOUSLY BY TWO PARTNERS

SMEGMA: WHITE MATTER WHICH COLLECTS UNDER THE FORESKIN OF PENIS

SODOMY: THE INSERTION OF THE PENIS INTO THE ANUS

SPERM: THE FLUID THAT ERUPTS FROM THE PENIS DURING EJACULATION

STALLION: A MALE WHO POSESSES A VERY LARGE PENIS

STRAIGHT: A HETROSEXUAL

STUD:.A MALE WHO IS IN GREAT DEMAND AS A SEX PARTNER

SUCK OFF: TO PERFORM ORAL INTERCOURSE ON THE PENIS

SUGAR DADDY: A MAN WHO KEEPS A YOUNGER PERSON FOR SEXUAL FAVORS

SWINGER. :.ONE WHO ACCEPTS FREE LOVE DOCTRINE

SWISH: A MALE WHO BEHAVES IN A FEMININE MANNER

SWITCH HITTER: A BI-SEXUAL

SWINGING- Sport sex for couples. A form of non sexually exclusive monogamy in which two primary partners agree to have caual sex with other couples or singles as long as there is no emotional involvement.

SWAPPING- A form of swinging in which two or more primary partnered couples exchange partners for recreational sex.

Safe Word = word or gesture previously agreed upon for use by both Tops and bottoms to halt the action in a scene or a relationship.

Sensory Depravation = using blindfolds, gags, ear plugs, hoods, bondage, etc. to reduce information available to one or more senses. (Henkin & Holiday)

Service = doing for another; the bottom for the Top, as an expression of
obedience, respect, submission, devotion, love, etc.

Slave = person who is consensually owned as property of another.

Submission = volitional giving up of control and power: decision that one is not in charge. (Henkin & Holiday)

Submissive = person who gives up power and control in a scene.

Suspension = a form of bondage in which a person is partly or fully raised off the ground.

Scrotum: sack, bag (note however that "hose bag" refers to vagina), scrotes

Sexually attractive man: babe, beefcake, bod, dude, gigolo, heartbreaker, honcho, honey, hunk, John-John, jumbo (from "Jumbo" the elephant; references large penis), lover, lunch, my guy or my man, rider, rump, roller, snatch, symbolic (from "sex symbol"), starter, stud or stud-muffin, sweetie, tush

Sexually attractive woman: babe, baby, bird, bod, chick, date, fox, kitten, mama or big mama, nookie, nymph, panty or panties, piece, skirt, snatch, sweetie, heartbreaker,lover, tush, willie wacker, fly buster, Betty, Mantovani, bimbette, hole, lubrication,kickin’ or hotchin’

Syphilis: bad blood, siph, pox, ‘lues (derived from pustules)
crabs = (1)pubic lice, or (2)VD/STD in general

Shitter or crapper = (1)anus or (2)toilet moon or to "shoot the moon" = expose the buttocks, usually in jest

S&M: sadomasochism: giving (sadism) or receiving (masochism) pain or discomfort

Safe: used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy. Also refers to a rubber or condom

Same Room Sex: intercouple sex between couples in same room

Sgl single person.

Shaved: usually most or all of the pubic area

Single: a swinger without a partner, single or married.

Social: a party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. there is no swinging at a social but privately arranged swinging may follow a social

Social Swing Club: a swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important

Soft Swinging: a social, erotic swing party environment where sexual activity is common and available, but not required or assumed. Sometimes used to describe swapping up to, but not including intercourse. The term developed in Southern California in the early 1970's. See Hard Swinging, Hard Core

STD: sexually transmitted disease. a term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. these social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem

Str: straight (ie not gay - hetrosexual)

Straight: non-swinger; a swinger who is not interested in same sex sexual activity; a person who does not use drugs; non bisexual, non-gay

Student: the submissive role during English scenario

Submissive: see Passive

Sub submissive: plays the passive, controlled role during scenario

Submissive: plays the passive, controlled role during scenario

Swapping: two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity

Swedish Culture: use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate

Swing Magazine: a periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community

Swinging: social-sexual relational recreation among men and women. It is a couple oriented activity but single men and women sometimes are involved

Swinging Lifestyle: style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships

Swinging Marriage: marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals

Sexual Aid/Sex Toy: A catch-all term for any device used for sexual stimulation.

Silicone: An expensive, quality material used to make high-end toys.

Strap-On: A dildo or vibrator that is attached via a harness (generally in the genital region).

Sadomasochism: inflicting and receiving pain, often to produce sexual excitement. See also: domination. Masochism, SM, S&M, S/M.

Sex: other than having sex, one's biological assignment as male or female, or in between (see intersexual).

Sex hormones: substances produced by the testes, ovaries and adrenal glands in different quantities in females and males which promote bodily sexual characteristics. Certain hormones artificially taken by men can grow breasts. Other hormones taken by women can grow facial hair and lower the voice.

Sex reassignment surgery: surgery to change, within the limits of surgical possibility, a person's genitals to those of the other sex (and retain the possibility of sexual stimulation). In male-to-female conversion, the penis is converted to a vagina. In female-to-male conversion, the challenge has been to create a version of a penis.

Sexual identity: how one perceives oneself as male, female, or in between. A biological female may identify as a male and vice versa.

Sexual orientation: how a person chooses to have sex -- with the same or opposite sex, with both, with oneself, or not at all (asexual).

S/he: can be used in place of the generic "he," which has been used as a cover term for all males and females (similar to the usage "man's role on earth" to indicate everyone).

Sissy: a boy or man seen as having feminine qualities; often a negative term.

Solosexual: having a preference for sex with one's self (a term invented by Valory Gravois; please advise if there is a better existing word)

SRS: sex reassignment surgery.

SAPPHISM: Lesbianism

SCELEROPHILIA: Attraction to bad guys or unsavory characters

SCOPTOPHILIA: Voyeurism

SCOTOPHILIA: Turned on by darkness

SDRUCCIOLA: Copulate

SEPTOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to decaying matter

SIDERODROMOPHILIA: Arousal from riding in trains

SITOPHILIA: Deriving pleasure from eating

SOCERAPHILIA: Excitement from one’s parents-in-law

SOPHOPHILIA: Sexual gratification from learning

SOROPHILIA: Attraction to one’s sister

SPADONISM: Eunuchry

SPECTROPHILIA: Arousal from looking at oneself in a mirror

SPERMATOPHOBIA: Fear of semen

SPINTRY: A male whore

STASIVALENCE: Ability to have sexual intercourse only while standing

STAUROPHILIA: Arousal from the cross or crucifix

STHENOLAGNIA: Arousal from displaying strength or muscles

STUPRATION: Rape

STYGIOPHILIA: Deriving pleasure from thoughts of hell

SUBAGITATION: Copulation

SUCCUBUS: A female demon who seduces men in their sleep

SUPINOVALENT: Able to fornicate only while lying on the back

SYMPHOROPHILIA: Arousal by accidents or catastrophes

SYNGENESOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to one’s relatives

Sacred: Devoted to religious purpose.

Sadism: A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on sexual role play or fantasy that includes giving punishment, discipline, or humiliation.

Sadomasochism (S and M): The consensual use of domination and/or pain for sexual stimulation in sex play. The "sadist" is the partner who dominates and inflicts pain. The "masochist" is the partner who is dominated and receives pain.

Safer Sex: Ways in which people reduce the risk of getting sexually transmitted infections, including HIV.

Safe Word: A previously agreed upon signal that means a partner is no longer enjoying a sexual activity and it must stop.

Sample: The group of people or subjects studied in a research project.

Sanitary Pad: An absorbent "napkin" made of cotton or similar fibers that is worn against the vulva to absorb menstrual flow.

Satyriasis: The desire by a man to have sex very frequently with many different partners.

Scabies: Tiny mites that can be sexually transmitted. They burrow under the skin, causing intense itching (usually at night) and small bumps or rashes that appear in dirty-looking, small curling lines, especially on the penis, between the fingers, on buttocks, breasts, wrists, and thighs, and around the navel.

Scrotum: A sac of skin, divided into two parts, enclosing the testes, epididymides, and a part of the vasa deferentia. Secondary

Sex Characteristics: Characteristics of the body that are caused by hormones, develop during puberty, and last through adult life. For women, these include breast development and widened hips. For men, they include facial hair development. Both genders develop pubic hair and underarm hair.

Secular: Devoted to human purpose.

Self-Esteem: Self-respect; worthwhile feeling.

Semen: Fluid containing sperm that is ejaculated during sexual excitement. Semen is composed of seminal fluid from the seminal vesicles, fluid from the prostate, and fluid from the Cowper's glands.

Seminal Fluid: A fluid that nourishes and helps sperm to move. Seminal fluid is made in the seminal vesicles.

Seminal Vesicle: One of two small organs located beneath the bladder that produce seminal fluid.

Seminiferous Tubules: A network of tiny tubules in the testes that constantly produce sperm. Seminiferous tubules also produce androgens, the "male" sex hormones.

Sex: Gender; the act of sex play.

Sex Cell: A reproductive cell.

Sex Drive: Our natural urge and desire to have sex.

Sexism: Bias against a certain gender‹especially against women.

Sexology: The scientific study of sex and sexuality through many disciplines including, but not limited to, anthropology, biology, sociology, history, psychology, medicine, and law.

Sex Play: Any voluntary sexual activity, with or without a partner.

Sex Therapy: Treatment to resolve a sexual problem or dysfunction such as premature ejaculation, inability to have orgasm, or low level of sexual desire.

Sexual Abuse: Sexual activity that is harmful or not consensual.

Sexual Addiction: The compulsive search for having very frequent sex.

Sexual Assault: The use of force or coercion, physical or psychological, to make a person engage in sexual activity.

Sexual Aversion Disorder: The fear of sexual contact.

Sexual Compulsion: An obsession with having very frequent sex, often with many different sex partners.

Sexual Compulsives Anonymous: A self-help recovery group for women and men who want to control what they believe to be sexual addictions.

Sexual Conflict: The clash between sex drive and sexual inhibition.

Sexual Desire: A strong physically arousing attraction.

Sexual Discomfort: Feelings of sexual inhibition that are not as severe as dysfunctions.

Sexual Double Standard: See Double Standard.

Sexual Dysfunction: A psychological or physical disorder of sexual function.

Sexual Harassment: Unwanted sexual advances with suggestive gestures, language, or touching.

Sexual Identity: Feelings about one's own sexual orientation, gender, gender role, and gender identity.

Sexuality: The interplay of gender, gender role, gender identity, sexual orientation, sexual preference, and social norms as they affect physical, emotional, and spiritual life.

Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs): Infections that are often or usually passed from one person to another during sexual or intimate contact.

Sexual Norm: A cultural norm regarding sex or sexuality.

Sexual Orientation: The term used to describe the gender of the objects of our sexual desires. People who feel sexual desire for members of the other gender are heterosexual, or straight. People who feel sexual desire for people of the same gender are homosexual, or gay. Gay women are called lesbians. People who are attracted to both genders are bisexuals.

Sexual Repression: The suppression of sexual activities, ideas, or identities that are perceived to be harmful or morally wrong.

Sexual Response Cycle: The pattern of response to sexual stimulation. The five stages of the cycle are desire, excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution.

Sexual Seduction: Legally, the encouragement of a younger or less mature person into an illegal sexual situation.

Sexual Stereotype: An overly simplified judgment or bias regarding the sexuality of a person or group.

Sex Worker: One who is paid for providing sex or sexually arousing conditions, including prostitution, striptease, lap dancing, commercial phone sex, and erotic massage.

Shaft: A part of the penis and clitoris.

Smegma: A sticky, white, unpleasant-smelling substance produced at the glans of the penis. It is formed by bacteria and body oils.

Social Stigma: Severe disapproval for behavior that is not within cultural norms.

Sociology: The study of human relationships, interactions, beliefs, values, behaviors, and their meanings.

Sodomy: Oral or anal intercourse.

Somatotropin: The human growth hormone secreted by the pituitary gland.

Spectatoring: The habit of thinking about, comparing, grading, and monitoring one's sexual performance while having sex.

Speculum: A plastic or metal instrument used to separate the walls of the vagina so the clinician can examine the vagina and cervix.

Speculum Exam: Physical examination of the walls of the vagina and cervix that is accomplished by using a speculum.

Sperm: The reproductive cells in men, produced in the seminiferous tubules of the testes.

Spermarche: The time when sperm is first produced by the testes of a boy.

Spermatogenesis: The process of producing sperm. Spermatogenesis occurs in the seminiferous tubules of the testes.

Spermicides: Chemicals used to immobilize sperm and protect against certain sexually transmitted infections.

Spirochete: Organism that causes syphilis.

Squeeze Technique: A method for postponing early ejaculation.

Statutory Rape: Sexual intercourse between an adult and anyone who is below the age of consent, whether or not it is voluntary.

STD (Sexually Transmitted Disease): A sexually transmitted infection that has developed symptoms.

Stereotype: An overly simplified judgment or bias regarding a person or group.

Sterilization: Surgical methods of birth control that are intended to be permanent (blocking of the fallopian tubes for women or the vasa deferentia for men).

Stimuli: Things that excite response or action.

Straight: Heterosexual.
Stranger Rape: Coerced sexual intercourse by an assailant unknown to the victim.

Stress: Being made to feel threatened or challenged in some way.

Syphilis: A sexually transmitted organism that can lead to disorders, or death.

sex: The distinction between male and female; the characteristics by which humans, animal or plants are male or female; gender: the female sex, women generally, usually with the definite article

sex object: One who is regarded exclusively as an object of sexual interest

sexologist: One who studies sex or the interactions of the sexes

sexual: Pertaining to sex; distinguished or founded on the sex

sexual harassment: Uninvited and unwelcome conduct directed at anyone because of his or her sex
Note: False allegations of sexual harassment are one of the most potent weapons in the feminist arsenal used in the gender war. It is a weapon that men neither use nor hardly ever can avail themselves of. The feminist dominated courts hold that women don't rape, kill, molest, abuse or harass. Women are considered to be innocent under all and any circumstances. The insidious nature of allegations of sexual harassment is that no absolute and objective standards exist by which it can be determined whether sexual harassment occurred, or by which one can measure its degree of severity. Usually a woman's allegations of sexual harassment, even if uncorroborated by any evidence or witnesses, are taken at face value, unless the accused man can prove that he was elsewhere and not in the presence of the accusing woman at the time he was to have been engaged in harassing her. Even that is often ruled out as admissible evidence and the accuser's word made superior to that of any witnesses a man may be able to produce.
Furthermore, what may be a man's nightingale can easily be perceived, or claimed to be, the woman's owl or nightmare. It matters little whether the perceived harassment is a figment of her imagination or a product of her maliciousness.
What aggravates the aspects of sexual harassment allegations is that in many localities it is a criminal offence to sexually harass. In Canada is has been assigned to the same criminal category as rape, to the category of sexual assault.
Therefore "rape statistics" in Canada now encompass criminal convictions for offences that range from uncorroborated charges of leering at a woman in a public swimming pool to rape with aggravated assault and murder. That had a fine effect. It raised statistics for incidents of "rape" to dizzying heights.

sexuality: State or quality of being sexual

sexualize: To distinguish as sexed, to raise sexual awareness, to make sexual

sexual orientation: According to the traditional perspective, one of two possible self-images an individual may have of himself (normally correlating to one's own sex); and according to more liberal views, one of a multitude of sexual preferences one may adopt during his life time, preferences that are not the outcome of one's biological constraints but rather of one's preference with respect to how to obtain sexual excitation and gratification (e. g.: fetishism, homosexuality, pedophilia, sodomy, coprophilia, pederasty,

sado-masochism, transsexualism, etc.); syn. see GENDER

sodomist SODOMITE

sodomite: One who practices sodomy — sodomitic or sodomitical adj.
sodomy: Unnatural non-coital (anal, oral or manual) copulation with a member of the same or opposite

sex or with an animal

sex toys:A sex toy is a term for any object or device that is primarily used in facilitating human sexual pleasure. This term can also include BDSM apparatus

Sadism. Receiving sexual stimulation by giving pain, usually during foreplay. See "Masochism" .

Safe sex. A misnomer which involves wearing a condom during homosexual or heterosexual intercourse as a means of avoiding contracting an STD. There is no "safe" illicit sex. The failure rate of the best condoms is estimated to range between 10 and 20 percent.

Semen. The fluid which contains the sperm as it is ejaculated from the penis during the husband's orgasm.

Sexual activity. This is the term that should have been used by the court in the Paula Corbin Jones/Clinton matter. Any activity or combination of activities designed to cause sexual excitement which, if continued, will cause orgasm for one or both parties. Sexual activity includes but is not limited to: oral sex, vaginal intercourse, stimulating [with the hands or mouth] the penis of the man or the breasts and vulva of the woman.

Sexual immorality. A general term in scripture referring to intercourse between unmarried persons; fornication.

Sexual intercourse, conjugation. Inserting the husband's erect penis into the wife's vagina, usually associated with thrusting to the point of orgasm.

Sexually-transmitted diseases (STDs). Any disease, such as AIDS, which can be passed to another person during sexual activity. The classic STDs are syphilis and gonorrhea. A common modern STD is genital herpes.

Sperm. The husband's contribution to conception. Sperm can "swim" to unite with the wife's egg after being ejaculated into her vagina.

Spermacide. A birth control product designed to kill the sperm in the vagina before they can reach the wife's egg.

Sexual Dysfunction: Physical and mental difficulties with arousal, lack of desire, fear of intimacy and overactive sexual activity. Difficulties may be persistent, recurring or once in a lifetime. See also Erectile Dysfunction.

Sadism, sadist- Sexual pleasure that results from pain, humiliation and/or domination. The sadist delivers pain or humiliation to the people desiring it by respecting their limits and by being caring and careful.

Sadomasochism, SM- Sexual practices in an advanced level where pain , humiliation and power exchange are being used. SM has also dominance and submission, bondage and discipline, love bondage and erotic spanking.

Safe, sane and consensual- In the SM community are characteristics of acceptable play. During activities, players take safety precautions or they do not participate in practice that could injure mentally or physically their partners. Before the activities they consent by negotiating.

Scene- The SM or fetish community or a SM session or occurrence during play.

Slave- A submissive that is involved in a slave/master fantasy.

Slave training-The instruction of a submissive in a dominant's preference . The submissive's behavior is conditioned.

Spanking- Striking or paddling a submissive in their butts.

Switch- When a person trades places in a SM role or physical play. Ex: top or bottom, dom or sub. It is also a tree or bush branch used for corporal punishment.

Sexual Orientation: Sexual identification, depending on a person's sexual relationships or affinity.

Significant Other: One's chosen romantic partner.

Smash: A young woman's crush on another woman. The term was used in late nineteenth century and early twentieth century women's colleges.

sixty-nine
term for a sexual activity in which two people simultaneously stimulate each other's genitals orally

scrotum
pouch containing testicles: the external pouch of skin and muscle containing the testes in mammals. It allows sperm to develop at a temperature lower than that of the body.

sound:transitive verb medicine examine something with probe: to use a surgical probe to examine a body cavity or passage such as the bladder or to dilate a constriction

submissive:ready to submit to others: giving in or tending to give in to the demands or authority of others 

scrotum: The scrotum is a sac that hangs behind and below the penis, and containts the testes, the male sexual glands. The scrotum's primary function is to maintain the testes at approximately 34 C, the temperature at which the testes most effectively produce sperm.

seminal vesicles: The seminal vesicles produce semen, a fluid that activates
and protects the sperm after it has left the penis during ejaculation

smemga: A substance with the texture of cheese secreted by glands on each side of the frenulum in uncircumsized men.

SEXUALOVE- The synergic fusing of love and sexuality into a single erotic emotion in an intimate relationship.

stuffing = inserting objects into vagina or anus

snuffing = sex play which results in death; e.g., a snuff scene involves someone
being killed while involved in [painful or violent] sexual activities

S & M = Sadistic and Masochistic sexual stimulation (sadomasochism)

SECONDARY RELATIONSHIP- An ongoing sexualove relationship in which the partners usually do not live together, and do not consider their relationship a first priority.

SERIAL MONOGAMY- The most common lovestyle in the US today. Consists of being married to one partner at a time with frequent changes in partners.

score = to obtain sexual favors or intercourse

snatch = (1)vulva/vagina, (2)copulation or sexual interaction in general, (3)a sexually attractive man or woman

sorted = arrangements have been completed

slut = person who seeks for and/or participates in indiscriminate sexual behavior, but usually not in reference to being for hire

suck face or smackin’ or mackin’ = deep kissing, French kissing, tongue kissing foreplay: necking, petting, make out, scoring, operating, play around or fool around, dry humping, playing "doctor," get serious, get down to business, get hot or hot & bothered, warm up, pre-game show, taxi for take-off

sympathy-fuck aka mercy-fuck = sexual activity initiated or motivated by pity rather than by arousal, love, or financial gain (e.g., a wife gives sex only because husband looks sad, or a prostitute doesn’t charge for sex due to feeling sorry for client)

 

Sexual Definitions - R

RAPE:  FORCIBLY PERFORM SEXUAL INTERCOURSE

RECTUM:  THE TUBE BETWEEN THE COLOR AND THE ANUS

RIM:  TO USE THE TONGUE ON THE ANUS

ROD:  THE PENIS

RUBBER:  A CONDUM