There are just a handful from women that can cum while a man is inside her. Some are able to let go easier than others and use their minds for stimulation and some are not. Some just need the physical stimulation to get off. This does not mean just having a toy or a man inside of her is going to get her off...were talking direct stimulation here ladies and gentlemen...Yes...the clit...
Any woman is able to orgasm quickly when she’s being fondled during penetration. Sensations from penetration and fondling combine, leading to an intense orgasm that will leave her stunned. So where should a man touch a woman to get her off fast? Some women prefer breast stroking, while some women like torrid kissing, but the true secret to a quick orgasm is clitoral touching during sex.
However, doing this is easier said than done. The usual sex positions (like missionary) require you to use one or both hands to balance. Some men also find it difficult to do another task when foreplay is over and sex is in full swing. A remedy to this is to get into sex positions that allows touching of the clitoris without much effort on the guy’s part. You can also get into a sex position that will make it easier for the woman to reach her clitoris and stimulate herself without getting too tired.
Here are three sex positions that will do the trick.
Coital Alignment
Despite the technical term for this sex position, it’s pretty simple.
The man lies directly on top of the woman and penetration angle is
similar to that in the missionary position. However, in the coital
alignment position, a man’s pubic region is pressed against the woman’s.
This makes it seem like he’s grinding or rocking to and fro, rather
than pulling in and out. The rhythmic grinding on the woman’s clitoris
will induce orgasm quickly. One more benefit to this technique is that
you can kiss her lips and moan into her ear while you’re in this
position.
Woman On Top
This position will do more than help a woman to reach climax faster, it
will increase the intensity of her orgasm. This is much like the coital
alignment position but instead of the man being on top, the woman stays
on top. The woman can lean her torso forward, arch her back, and keep
her crotch in constant contact with the base of his penis or his pubic
region. In this position, she can control the rhythm as well as the
depth of penetration. Moreover, she can press down on the man’s pubic
region so that her clitoris is sensitized by rubbing on his skin.
Doggy Style
In this position, a girl can play with her clitoris all she
wants while you penetrate her. Dog style is a sex position that lets the
girl touch her body herself with one hand while balancing with the
other. She can also free up both hands by balancing with her shoulders
and head. If you really want to give your girl the best orgasm of her
life, these sex positions I mentioned will help you find a way to touch
her clitoris during sex. The clitoris is very sensitive, and any girl
will tell you that the clitoris plays a big role to inducing orgasm
during masturbation.
ZOOERASTIA:Sexual intercourse with an
animal
ZOOPHILIA:One who is attracted to
animals in a sexual, or emotional sense
ZWISCHENSTUFE:Arousal from a person of the
same sex
YONI WORSHIP: Worship of the female
XENOPHILIA:
An attraction to foreign customs, traditions, and foreigners
XERONISUS:
Inability to reach orgasm
XYLOPHILIA: Turned on by wooden objects
X-frame- A bondage frame in the shape of an "X" in a horizontal position.
WHELP:
To bear offspring
WHIRLYGIGS:
Testicles
WITTOL: A husband who tolerates his wife’s infidelity
Wet
Dreams: Erotic imaging during sleep that causes ejaculation.
Withdrawal:
Pulling the penis out of the vagina before ejaculation in order to avoid
pregnancy.
Withdrawal. A means of birth control which calls for the husband to pull his penis out of his wife's vagina before sexual intercourse reaches the point of his ejaculation. This is considered to be an unreliable means of birth control. Some drops of semen may ooze from the penis before the first spasm of an ejaculation, or the first spasm may come with insufficient warning to permit complete withdrawal before some semen enters the vagina. If semen is ejaculated at the mouth of the vagina, some sperm may swim upstream and unite with an ovum. It only takes one of each to cause a pregnancy.
WHAM
BAM.............................................RAPID AND HURRIED SEXUAL
ACTIVITY
WIENER.....................................................THE
PENIS
WORK
OFF................................................TO MASTURBATE
WORK UP...................................................TO CREATE PASSION OR TO BE PASSIONATE
Water
sports- Sexual play using urine or enemas.
Whip- Object that can be
also a cane, crop, paddle or slapper, or a single or multiple-lash whips to
beat a submissive.
Worship- To lavish attention
to a body part(Ex: feet.) Also, a role playing attitude toward a dominant.
VAGINA: ORIFACE
OF FEMALE SEX ORGANS
VANILLA
SEX: .ANY NON KINKY SEX ACTS
VERSATILE.: BI-SEXUAL
VIRILTY: THE
SEXUAL POWER AND CAPACITY OF A MALE
VOYEUR: ONE
WHO GAINS SEXUAL SATISFACTION FROM WATCHING OTHERS UNDRESSING OR ENGAGE IN
SEXUAL ACTS
Vasectomy:
surgical procedure of cutting and tying the vas deferens to make a man
infertile; a method of contraception
Versatile:
bisexual. See AC/DC
Vibrator:
electrically run vibrating device for stimulation of the vagina by insertion or
holding to outer lips, clitoris, breasts and the male penis. Some vibrators are
penile shaped and are run by batteries while more expensive ones are for
surface use and are run by an AC motor from a typical wall outlet. Vibrators
are used by both men and women for self-stimulation and to sexually please
another
Voluptuous:
fullness of beauty and form; usually used to refer to a woman with large
well-formed breasts; may also refer to full but well formed hips
Voyeur:
a person who enjoys and is stimulated by watching others in sexual acts
Voyeurism: the act of being a voyeur
VACCINOPHILIA:
Turned on by becoming vaccinated
VAMPIRISM:
Consuming blood of a partner for arousal
VICARPHILIA:
Arousal from other people's exciting experiences
VINCILAGNIA:
Arousal from bondage
VIRAGINITY:
Masculinity in a woman
VIRGIN:
You really need to ask?
VIRIMIMISM:
Adoption of masculinity
VIRIPOTENT:
Sexually mature
VITRICOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to one’s stepfather
Vagina: The
stretchable passage that connects a woman's outer sex organs (the vulva) with
the cervix and uterus.
Vaginal
Intercourse: Sex play in which the penis enters the vagina.
Vaginal
Pouch (Female Condom): A polyurethane sheath with flexible rings at each end
that is inserted deep into the vagina like a diaphragm. It is an
over-the-counter, reversible barrier method of birth control that may provide
protection against many sexually transmitted infections.
Vaginismus:
Painful intercourse for a woman that occurs when her fear and anxiety about
vaginal intercourse cause the muscles around her vagina to go into spasm when
her partner tries to insert a penis or dildo.
Vaginitis:
An inflammation of the vagina that is caused by a change in the normal balance
of vaginal bacteria.
Values:
Ideas of what is right, worthwhile, or moral.
Varicocele:
An enlargement of the spermatic vein, which supplies blood to the testis. It
can reduce blood flow and increase the temperature of the testicle, thereby
causing infertility.
Vas
Deferens: A long, narrow tube that carries sperm from each epididymis to the
seminal vesicles. The plural of vas deferens is vasa deferentia.
Vasectomy:
Surgical blocking of the vasa deferentia in men that is intended to provide
permanent birth control.
Venereologist:
One who studies sexually transmitted infections.
Viability:
The
ability of a fetus to survive outside a woman's body.
Virginity:
Never having had sexual intercourse.
Voluntary
Sterilization: Surgically implemented contraception that is intended to be permanent
and that is freely chosen.
Voyeurism:
A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on watching people
undress or have sex play unaware that they are being watched.
Voyeurs:
Women or men who become aroused by secretly watching another person undress or
engage in sexual behavior.
Vulva:
A woman's external sex organs, including the clitoris, the labia (majora and
minora), the opening to the vagina (introitus), and two Bartholin's glands.
Vagina.
A channel of moist tissue between the vulva and the mouth of the uterus.
Value-free sex education.
Telling students about the biology and mechanics of sex without the Bible's
moral absolutes which control sexual behavior.
Viagra. It has been
estimated that up to 30 million American men suffer from sexual dysfunction
(impotence). Until recently, sexual dysfunction has been effectively treated
with injections, surgery, and other procedures, many of which are painful and
embarrassing. In March 1998, the FDA announced that Viagra® a new drug from
Pfizer, Inc., has been approved as treatment for male sexual dysfunction.
Vibrator. A penis-shaped
battery-powered device designed to stimulate the vulva, clitoris, and vagina
during foreplay. There is a theory that for some couples, excessive and extended
use of a vibrator may make it increasingly difficult for a wife to respond to
her husband during non-mechanical foreplay and sexual intercourse. May be
useful during impotence. You can buy one on the Internet; just enter dildo or
vibrator into any search engine. One with a vibrator should cost about $30 US.]
Warning:you may get into some very unsavory sites. Just buy what you are
looking for and get out! See dildo.
Virgin. A woman or man who
has never had sexual intercourse.
Vulva. The wife's primary
external sex organ. The vulva includes two sets of lip-like folds of tissue
known as the labia. The inner labia (lips) enclose (from front to back) the
clitoris, the urethra (for excreting urine, and the vagina. The outer lips are
covered with pubic hair.
Vasectomy. A simple
operation on the husband in the doctor's office which acts as a relatively
permanent form of birth control. In a vasectomy, the tubes which lead from the
testicles to the penis are cut by making small incisions in the scrotum. Because
of this operation, the sperm which the testicles create cannot be mixed with
the semen during ejaculation. There is no physical reason why the husband
cannot continue to have a normal erection during foreplay and cannot enjoy
sexual intercourse. The best time for a vasectomy is while the wife is pregnant
with the last child. This will give the husband's body time to cleanse itself
of all sperm before the first ejaculation during sexual intercourse after the
baby is born.
Vinyl- Material used for fetish fashions.
VD/STDs
in general: clasp, dose, old Joe, whites, morning dew, a strain, wages (from
"wages of sin") gonorrhea: clap, dose, drip
vulva: down there, beaver,
crotch, Y-view, the Y, YMCA, lady-lips, money-maker, yoni, pussy, bush or
bushland, tush, concha
vanilla
= (1)conventional sexual relations, (2)any sexual interaction that does not
include
sadomasochistic/D&S sexual play
vada = to look at or closely
examine
Vibrator: Any device that
uses batteries or AC current to create a vibration. Most often used by women to
stimulate the clitoris.
vas deferens: The ducts leading from the epididymis to the seminal vesicles. These are the ducts that are cut during the procedure known as vasectomy.
Vaginal Atrophy: The thinning, drying and irritation of the vaginal lining in menopausal women.
UNDINISM:
The association of water with erotic thoughts
URANISM:
Homosexuality
URANOPHILIA:
Sexual arousal by heavenly thoughts
UROLAGNIA:
Sexual pleasure from urinating
URTICATION:
The use of nettles to create extra sensation
UXORAVALENT:
Only able to attain sex extramaritally (applied to men)
UXOROVALENT: Able to score only with one’s wife
Uncircumcised:
Description of a penis that has a foreskin.
Ureters
The
two tubes that lead from the kidneys to the bladder.
Urethra:
The tube and opening from which women and men urinate. The urethra empties the
bladder and carries urine to the urethral opening. In men, the urethra runs
through the penis and also carries ejaculate and pre-ejaculate during sex play.
Use-Effectiveness:
The reliability of a contraceptive method as it is usually used‹when it is not
always used consistently or correctly.
Uterus:
The pear-shaped, muscular reproductive organ from which women menstruate and
where normal pregnancy develops; the womb.
UTI
(Urinary Tract Infection): A bacterial infection of the bladder (also called
cystitis), the ureters, or the urethra; can be sexually transmitted.
Uterus: A muscular organ found only in the female in which the baby develops before birth.
URETHA...................................................DUCT
WHICH CARRIES URINE AND SEMEN
UROLAGNIA...........................................SEXUAL PLEASURE FROM WATCHING ANOTHER DRINK URINE
Unisex: not pertaining to one sex only. Unisex clothing can be worn by both traditional sexes. A unisex hair salon invites customers of both sexes. Unisexual.
Urethra:The
tube and opening from which women and men urinate. The urethra empties the
bladder and carries urine to the urethral opening. In men, the urethra runs
through the penis and also carries ejaculate and pre-ejaculate during sex play.
Use-Effectiveness:
The reliability of a contraceptive method as it is usually used when it is not
always used consistently or correctly.
Uterus:
The pear-shaped, muscular reproductive organ from which women menstruate and
where normal pregnancy develops; the womb.
UTI
(Urinary Tract Infection):
A
bacterial infection of the bladder (also called cystitis), the ureters, or the
urethra; can be sexually transmitted.
Uncircumcised:
Description of a penis that has a foreskin.
Ureters:The
two tubes that lead from the kidneys to the bladder.
uncircumcised penis: shrouded, capped dick, sheathed, cloaked or using a cloaking device, heathen dick or gentile dick
urethra,
meatus: The opening at the tip of the penis to allow the passage of
both urine and semen.
Testicles.
The husband's sex organs which create the sperm and secrete testosterone, the
male sex hormone.
Trimester. Three months of a
pregnancy, usually expressed as first, second, or third trimester.
Testosterone:
A male sex hormone causing the development of the male reproductive system and
secondary sex characteristics.
Tumescence: This occurs when
the clitoris fills with blood. Also known as "engorgement."
Torture-
Painful actions used to enhance sexual pleasure.
Training- Discipline used by
the dom to control the sub's behavior, condition and/or attitude. Pony
training, anal training, position training, voice command response, etc. can be
used for training.
TS,Transsexual- A person
that mismatches his/her personal psychology. They go for counseling, hormone
treatments and surgery. Before surgery a transsexual is referred as a
"pre-op" TS and after surgery is a "post-op" TS.
Transgender:
An umbrella term for those who blur the lines of traditional gender expression.
Transsexual: A person who
has undergone or is preparing to undergo sex reassignment surgery.
Transvestite: A person who
dresses in the clothes and assumes the gender expression of the opposite sex.
TEA
ROOM...........................................A PUBLIC MEN'S REST ROOM
TESTICLES............................................THE
MALE REPRODUCTIVE GLANDS
THIRD
SEX............................................HOMOSEXUALS
TONGUE
(VER
..................................TO PERFORM ORAL INTERCOURSE
TOOLBOX..............................................THE
MALE GENITALS
TRADE....................................................A
PASSIVE MALE PROSTITUTE FOR HOMOSEXUALS
TRICK.....................................................A
SEX PARTNER
TURN A
TRICK.....................................TO TAKE ON A SEX PARTNER FOR MONEY
TRIAD-
The most basic and common form of multipartner relationship, consisting of
three adult primary partners, usually two of one sex and one of the other.
TERTIARY
RELATIONSHIP- A friendly but casual sexualove relationship of an occasional or
temporary nature.
TRIBE-
An affiliation of families and clans sharing common values, customs and
traditions, and regarding themselves as a tribe.
Toy =
equipment used in a SM scene. aka, tool, gear, equipment
Top =
term references (1)female or male who prefers to dominate or control the act of
copulation (usually in the thrusting role), and/or (2)the participant who
controls stimuli during sadomasochistic sex games (also termed sadist or
dominatrix [females only, and usually for hire]).
switch = (1)person who
enjoys playing either/both the bottom-masochist role or the top-sadist role,
(2)a bisexual person, (3)a small whip used in B&D activities
testicles:
plums, rocks, stones, dingleberries, balls, nuts, jewels or crown jewels or
family jewels, potatoes (as in "meat and potatoes" referring to penis
and testicles), cojones (Spanish), peaches, oysters
time menstrual discharge:
siff, ziff, the bloody, kotex juice
peaches = (1)vulva,
(2)breasts, or (3)testicles
tv or TV
= transvestite
T & A = "Tits and
Ass" usually in reference to displays of the female body (e.g.,
strippers or dancers); often
references objectified female sexuality in general
TS or
T-person = transsexual; the more current terminology is Transgendered.
Teacher:
the dominant role during English scenario
Threesome:
three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a swinging encounter. Not
the same as a "menage a' trois" in that the latter may involve
emotional involvement and a continuing relationship
Ticket:
a person, usually a woman, brought to a swing party solely to enable the man to
gain entrance. The ticket generally has no intention to swing or is not free to
swing
Toys:
sexual aids. See Marital Aids
Travel:
see Can Travel
Triad:
three people, two of one sex and one of the other in a continuing relationship
of emotional and sexual involvement. not the same as a threesome
Triolism:
used in personal ads to indicate desire for "threesomes". This is a
common but confusing usage. See Triad
Tubal
Ligation: surgical procedure of cutting and tying the fallopian tubes to make a
woman infertile. A method of contraception. Also called a band aid operation in
reference to the small incision made just below the navel to enable the cutting
and ligation
TV:
transvestite: a male who enjoys dressing up and impersonating a female
TG:
transgender
Tomboy:
a girl who prefers the activities, privileges and dress of boys, and avoids
female restrictions; sometimes used to describe adult women.
Transgender:
a popular cover term designating those not traditionally male or female (i.e.,
between the genders), including crossdressers, transsexuals, intersexuals,
gender dysphorics, and those for whom no label yet exists. Transgendered,
transgenderism, transgenderist.
Transsexual:
a person who feels his/her gender or identity doesn't match their biological
sex ("I am a woman in a man's body" or vice versa). Most live in the
desired role. A pre-op or preoperative transsexual is a TS preparing to have
genital conversion surgery. A post-op or postoperative TS has had the surgery.
Not all transsexuals desire surgery. Many take hormones to make their bodies
look more masculine or feminine.
TS:
transsexual.
Transvestite:
one who occasionally dresses in the clothing of the opposite sex for sexual or
emotional pleasure, or both. Can be male or female, hetero- or homosexual, bi-
or solosexual, and may partially or wholly crossdress. Some have felt the word
is a negative medical term; crossdresser and crossdressing are more commonly
used today. Transvestism, tranny.
TV:
a transvestite.
TAPHEPHILIA:
Arousal from being buried alive
TAPHOPHILIA:
Love of funerals
TELEOPHILIA:
Affinity for religious ceremonies
TENTIGINOUS:
Lascivious
TERATOPHILIA:
Arousal from deformed or monstrous people
THALASSOPHILIA:
Love of the sea
THASSOPHILIA:
Attraction to sitting
THREPTEROPHILIA:
A fondness for female nurses
THYGATRILAGNIA:
A father’s sexual love for his daughter
TOCOPHILIA:
Fondness for pregnancy and childbirth
TONITROPHILIA:
Love of thunder
TOXIPHILIA:
Attraction to poisons
TOXOPHILIA:
Love of archery
TRAGALISM:
Lust; lechery; obscenity
TRANSFEMINATE:
To change from woman to man
TRAUMATOPHILIA:
An unconscious desire to be injured
TRIBADISM:
Mutual genital-fondling between lesbians
TRICHOPATHOPHILIA:
Sexual attraction to hair
Taboo: Behavior
that is beyond the moral limits of cultural norms.
Tenting:
The expansion of the inner vagina during sexual excitement.
Testes:
Two ball-like glands inside the scrotum that produce sperm.
Testicles:
The testes.
Testosterone:
An androgen that is produced in the testes of men and in smaller amounts in the
ovaries of women.
Thelarche:
The time when a girl's breasts begin to develop.
Toxic
Shock Syndrome: A rare but very dangerous overgrowth of bacteria in the vagina.
Symptoms include vomiting, high fever, diarrhea, and a sunburn-type rash.
Transgender:
Women and men who dress in the clothing associated with the other gender
because they enjoy being treated as if they were of the other gender‹not for
sexual pleasure.
Transsexuals:
Women and men who fully identify themselves as the gender other than their
biological one.
Transvestites:
Women and men who dress in clothing associated with people of the other gender
because it gives them sexual pleasure.
Transvestophilia:
A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on wearing clothing,
especially underwear, associated with the other gender.
Tubal
Sterilization: Surgical blocking of the fallopian tubes that is intended to
provide permanent birth control.
transsexualist:
Someone who promotes or advocates transsexualism
transsexuality:
Sexual attraction directed toward playing or mimicking the role of a person of
the opposite sex; erotic acts for the purpose of gaining sexual excitement or
gratification while pretending to be a person of the opposite sex
testes,
testicles: The male sexual glands, the two testes within the scrotum
produce sperm and
testosterone. Within each testis is a kilometre of ducts called the
seminiferous tubules, the organs which generate sperm. Each testicle produces
nearly 150 million sperm every 24 hours.
tea room
= a restroom used for hustling and fellacio
trollop
= person interested in indiscriminate sexual interaction
tart =
person interested in indiscriminate sexual interaction, often for hire ‘ho
(whore) or puta = prostitute
tush =
vulva, more particularly including buttocks and/or anus
take it
in the ass = (1)receive anal intercourse, (2)to be taken advantage of
twang
plums = to arouse or stimulate a male, usually including ejaculation
to be had = (1)to be taken advantage of, or (2)to be the recipient of copulation, usually the unwilling recipient
SADOMASOCHISM:
BOTH SADISM AND MASOCHISM EXISTING IN THE SAME PERSON
SCORE: TO
ACHIEVE SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
SCREW: THE
ACT OF SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
SCROTUM:
THE POUCH OR SAC WHICH CONTAINS THE TESTICLES
SEA FOOD:
A SAILOR AS A SEX OBJECT
SEMEN: THE
FLUID PRODUCED DURING EJACULATION OF THE MALE
SHOOT: TO
ACHIEVE ORGASM
SIXTY-NINE:
GENITAL ORAL INTERCOURSE PERFORMED ON EACH OTHER.SIMULTANEOUSLY BY TWO PARTNERS
SMEGMA: WHITE
MATTER WHICH COLLECTS UNDER THE FORESKIN OF PENIS
SODOMY: THE
INSERTION OF THE PENIS INTO THE ANUS
SPERM: THE
FLUID THAT ERUPTS FROM THE PENIS DURING EJACULATION
STALLION:
A MALE WHO POSESSES A VERY LARGE PENIS
STRAIGHT:
A HETROSEXUAL
STUD:.A
MALE WHO IS IN GREAT DEMAND AS A SEX PARTNER
SUCK OFF:
TO PERFORM ORAL INTERCOURSE ON THE PENIS
SUGAR
DADDY: A MAN WHO KEEPS A YOUNGER PERSON FOR SEXUAL FAVORS
SWINGER.
:.ONE WHO ACCEPTS FREE LOVE DOCTRINE
SWISH: A
MALE WHO BEHAVES IN A FEMININE MANNER
SWITCH
HITTER: A BI-SEXUAL
SWINGING-
Sport sex for couples. A form of non sexually exclusive monogamy in which two
primary partners agree to have caual sex with other couples or singles as long
as there is no emotional involvement.
SWAPPING- A form of swinging
in which two or more primary partnered couples exchange partners for
recreational sex.
Safe
Word = word or gesture previously agreed upon for use by both Tops and bottoms
to halt the action in a scene or a relationship.
Sensory
Depravation = using blindfolds, gags, ear plugs, hoods, bondage, etc. to reduce
information available to one or more senses. (Henkin & Holiday)
Service
= doing for another; the bottom for the Top, as an expression of
obedience, respect,
submission, devotion, love, etc.
Slave =
person who is consensually owned as property of another.
Submission
= volitional giving up of control and power: decision that one is not in
charge. (Henkin & Holiday)
Submissive
= person who gives up power and control in a scene.
Suspension = a form of bondage in which a person is partly or fully raised off the ground.
Scrotum:
sack, bag (note however that "hose bag" refers to vagina), scrotes
Sexually attractive man:
babe, beefcake, bod, dude, gigolo, heartbreaker, honcho, honey, hunk,
John-John, jumbo (from "Jumbo" the elephant; references large penis),
lover, lunch, my guy or my man, rider, rump, roller, snatch, symbolic (from
"sex symbol"), starter, stud or stud-muffin, sweetie, tush
Sexually attractive woman:
babe, baby, bird, bod, chick, date, fox, kitten, mama or big mama, nookie,
nymph, panty or panties, piece, skirt, snatch, sweetie, heartbreaker,lover,
tush, willie wacker, fly buster, Betty, Mantovani, bimbette, hole,
lubrication,kickin’ or hotchin’
Syphilis: bad blood, siph,
pox, ‘lues (derived from pustules)
crabs = (1)pubic lice, or
(2)VD/STD in general
Shitter
or crapper = (1)anus or (2)toilet moon
or to "shoot the moon" = expose the buttocks, usually in jest
S&M:
sadomasochism: giving (sadism) or receiving (masochism) pain or discomfort
Safe:
used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had
a vasectomy. Also refers to a rubber or condom
Same
Room Sex: intercouple sex between couples in same room
Sgl
single person.
Shaved:
usually most or all of the pubic area
Single:
a swinger without a partner, single or married.
Social:
a party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or
magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. there is no swinging at a social
but privately arranged swinging may follow a social
Social
Swing Club: a swing club, generally private membership that offers social and
swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties.
They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a
membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance
fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital
status of the couple is rarely important
Soft
Swinging: a social, erotic swing party environment where sexual activity is
common and available, but not required or assumed. Sometimes used to describe
swapping up to, but not including intercourse. The term developed in Southern
California in the early 1970's. See Hard Swinging, Hard Core
STD:
sexually transmitted disease. a term developed in the late 1970's to replace VD
as the latter carried social and moral implications in the minds of many. these
social and moral implications interfered with the legitimate treatment of
sexually transmitted diseases as a medical problem
Str:
straight (ie not gay - hetrosexual)
Straight:
non-swinger; a swinger who is not interested in same sex sexual activity; a
person who does not use drugs; non bisexual, non-gay
Student:
the submissive role during English scenario
Submissive:
see Passive
Sub
submissive: plays the passive, controlled role during scenario
Submissive:
plays the passive, controlled role during scenario
Swapping:
two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity
Swedish
Culture: use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate
Swing
Magazine: a periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries
personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also
publish articles of general interest to the swinging community
Swinging:
social-sexual relational recreation among men and women. It is a couple
oriented activity but single men and women sometimes are involved
Swinging
Lifestyle: style of living with swinging a major component in recreation,
choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships
Swinging
Marriage: marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals
Sexual
Aid/Sex Toy: A catch-all term for any device used for sexual stimulation.
Silicone: An expensive,
quality material used to make high-end toys.
Strap-On: A dildo or
vibrator that is attached via a harness (generally in the genital region).
Sadomasochism:
inflicting and receiving pain, often to produce sexual excitement. See also:
domination. Masochism, SM, S&M, S/M.
Sex:
other than having sex, one's biological assignment as male or female, or in
between (see intersexual).
Sex
hormones: substances produced by the testes, ovaries and adrenal glands in
different quantities in females and males which promote bodily sexual
characteristics. Certain hormones artificially taken by men can grow breasts.
Other hormones taken by women can grow facial hair and lower the voice.
Sex
reassignment surgery: surgery to change, within the limits of surgical
possibility, a person's genitals to those of the other sex (and retain the
possibility of sexual stimulation). In male-to-female conversion, the penis is
converted to a vagina. In female-to-male conversion, the challenge has been to
create a version of a penis.
Sexual
identity: how one perceives oneself as male, female, or in between. A
biological female may identify as a male and vice versa.
Sexual
orientation: how a person chooses to have sex -- with the same or opposite sex,
with both, with oneself, or not at all (asexual).
S/he:
can be used in place of the generic "he," which has been used as a
cover term for all males and females (similar to the usage "man's role on
earth" to indicate everyone).
Sissy:
a boy or man seen as having feminine qualities; often a negative term.
Solosexual:
having a preference for sex with one's self (a term invented by Valory Gravois;
please advise if there is a better existing word)
SRS:
sex reassignment surgery.
SAPPHISM:
Lesbianism
SCELEROPHILIA:
Attraction to bad guys or unsavory characters
SCOPTOPHILIA:
Voyeurism
SCOTOPHILIA:
Turned on by darkness
SDRUCCIOLA:
Copulate
SEPTOPHILIA:
Sexual attraction to decaying matter
SIDERODROMOPHILIA:
Arousal from riding in trains
SITOPHILIA:
Deriving pleasure from eating
SOCERAPHILIA:
Excitement from one’s parents-in-law
SOPHOPHILIA:
Sexual gratification from learning
SOROPHILIA:
Attraction to one’s sister
SPADONISM:
Eunuchry
SPECTROPHILIA:
Arousal from looking at oneself in a mirror
SPERMATOPHOBIA:
Fear of semen
SPINTRY:
A male whore
STASIVALENCE:
Ability to have sexual intercourse only while standing
STAUROPHILIA:
Arousal from the cross or crucifix
STHENOLAGNIA:
Arousal from displaying strength or muscles
STUPRATION:
Rape
STYGIOPHILIA:
Deriving pleasure from thoughts of hell
SUBAGITATION:
Copulation
SUCCUBUS:
A female demon who seduces men in their sleep
SUPINOVALENT:
Able to fornicate only while lying on the back
SYMPHOROPHILIA:
Arousal by accidents or catastrophes
SYNGENESOPHILIA: Sexual attraction to one’s relatives
Sacred: Devoted
to religious purpose.
Sadism:
A paraphilia in which sexual arousal becomes dependent on sexual role play or
fantasy that includes giving punishment, discipline, or humiliation.
Sadomasochism
(S and M): The consensual use of domination and/or pain for sexual stimulation
in sex play. The "sadist" is the partner who dominates and inflicts
pain. The "masochist" is the partner who is dominated and receives
pain.
Safer
Sex: Ways in which people reduce the risk of getting sexually transmitted
infections, including HIV.
Safe
Word: A previously agreed upon signal that means a partner is no longer
enjoying a sexual activity and it must stop.
Sample:
The group of people or subjects studied in a research project.
Sanitary
Pad: An absorbent "napkin" made of cotton or similar fibers that is
worn against the vulva to absorb menstrual flow.
Satyriasis:
The desire by a man to have sex very frequently with many different partners.
Scabies:
Tiny mites that can be sexually transmitted. They burrow under the skin,
causing intense itching (usually at night) and small bumps or rashes that
appear in dirty-looking, small curling lines, especially on the penis, between
the fingers, on buttocks, breasts, wrists, and thighs, and around the navel.
Scrotum:
A sac of skin, divided into two parts, enclosing the testes, epididymides, and
a part of the vasa deferentia. Secondary
Sex
Characteristics: Characteristics of the body that are caused by hormones,
develop during puberty, and last through adult life. For women, these include
breast development and widened hips. For men, they include facial hair
development. Both genders develop pubic hair and underarm hair.
Secular:
Devoted to human purpose.
Self-Esteem:
Self-respect; worthwhile feeling.
Semen:
Fluid containing sperm that is ejaculated during sexual excitement. Semen is
composed of seminal fluid from the seminal vesicles, fluid from the prostate,
and fluid from the Cowper's glands.
Seminal
Fluid: A fluid that nourishes and helps sperm to move. Seminal fluid is made in
the seminal vesicles.
Seminal
Vesicle: One of two small organs located beneath the bladder that produce
seminal fluid.
Seminiferous
Tubules: A network of tiny tubules in the testes that constantly produce sperm.
Seminiferous tubules also produce androgens, the "male" sex hormones.
Sex:
Gender; the act of sex play.
Sex
Cell: A reproductive cell.
Sex
Drive: Our natural urge and desire to have sex.
Sexism:
Bias against a certain gender‹especially against women.
Sexology:
The scientific study of sex and sexuality through many disciplines including,
but not limited to, anthropology, biology, sociology, history, psychology,
medicine, and law.
Sex
Play: Any voluntary sexual activity, with or without a partner.
Sex
Therapy: Treatment to resolve a sexual problem or dysfunction such as premature
ejaculation, inability to have orgasm, or low level of sexual desire.
Sexual
Abuse: Sexual activity that is harmful or not consensual.
Sexual
Addiction: The compulsive search for having very frequent sex.
Sexual
Assault: The use of force or coercion, physical or psychological, to make a
person engage in sexual activity.
Sexual
Aversion Disorder: The fear of sexual contact.
Sexual
Compulsion: An obsession with having very frequent sex, often with many
different sex partners.
Sexual
Compulsives Anonymous: A self-help recovery group for women and men who want to
control what they believe to be sexual addictions.
Sexual
Conflict: The clash between sex drive and sexual inhibition.
Sexual
Desire: A strong physically arousing attraction.
Sexual
Discomfort: Feelings of sexual inhibition that are not as severe as
dysfunctions.
Sexual
Double Standard: See Double Standard.
Sexual
Dysfunction: A psychological or physical disorder of sexual function.
Sexual
Harassment: Unwanted sexual advances with suggestive gestures, language, or
touching.
Sexual
Identity: Feelings about one's own sexual orientation, gender, gender role, and
gender identity.
Sexuality:
The interplay of gender, gender role, gender identity, sexual orientation,
sexual preference, and social norms as they affect physical, emotional, and
spiritual life.
Sexually
Transmitted Infections (STIs): Infections that are often or usually passed from
one person to another during sexual or intimate contact.
Sexual
Norm: A cultural norm regarding sex or sexuality.
Sexual
Orientation: The term used to describe the gender of the objects of our sexual
desires. People who feel sexual desire for members of the other gender are
heterosexual, or straight. People who feel sexual desire for people of the same
gender are homosexual, or gay. Gay women are called lesbians. People who are
attracted to both genders are bisexuals.
Sexual
Repression: The suppression of sexual activities, ideas, or identities that are
perceived to be harmful or morally wrong.
Sexual
Response Cycle: The pattern of response to sexual stimulation. The five stages
of the cycle are desire, excitement, plateau, orgasm, and resolution.
Sexual
Seduction: Legally, the encouragement of a younger or less mature person into
an illegal sexual situation.
Sexual
Stereotype: An overly simplified judgment or bias regarding the sexuality of a
person or group.
Sex
Worker: One who is paid for providing sex or sexually arousing conditions,
including prostitution, striptease, lap dancing, commercial phone sex, and
erotic massage.
Shaft:
A part of the penis and clitoris.
Smegma:
A sticky, white, unpleasant-smelling substance produced at the glans of the
penis. It is formed by bacteria and body oils.
Social
Stigma: Severe disapproval for behavior that is not within cultural norms.
Sociology:
The study of human relationships, interactions, beliefs, values, behaviors, and
their meanings.
Sodomy:
Oral or anal intercourse.
Somatotropin:
The human growth hormone secreted by the pituitary gland.
Spectatoring:
The habit of thinking about, comparing, grading, and monitoring one's sexual
performance while having sex.
Speculum:
A plastic or metal instrument used to separate the walls of the vagina so the
clinician can examine the vagina and cervix.
Speculum
Exam: Physical examination of the walls of the vagina and cervix that is
accomplished by using a speculum.
Sperm:
The reproductive cells in men, produced in the seminiferous tubules of the
testes.
Spermarche:
The time when sperm is first produced by the testes of a boy.
Spermatogenesis:
The process of producing sperm. Spermatogenesis occurs in the seminiferous
tubules of the testes.
Spermicides:
Chemicals used to immobilize sperm and protect against certain sexually
transmitted infections.
Spirochete:
Organism that causes syphilis.
Squeeze
Technique: A method for postponing early ejaculation.
Statutory
Rape: Sexual intercourse between an adult and anyone who is below the age of
consent, whether or not it is voluntary.
STD
(Sexually Transmitted Disease): A sexually transmitted infection that has
developed symptoms.
Stereotype:
An overly simplified judgment or bias regarding a person or group.
Sterilization:
Surgical methods of birth control that are intended to be permanent (blocking
of the fallopian tubes for women or the vasa deferentia for men).
Stimuli:
Things that excite response or action.
Straight:
Heterosexual.
Stranger
Rape: Coerced sexual intercourse by an assailant unknown to the victim.
Stress:
Being made to feel threatened or challenged in some way.
Syphilis:
A sexually transmitted organism that can lead to disorders, or death.
sex: The
distinction between male and female; the characteristics by which humans,
animal or plants are male or female; gender: the female sex, women generally,
usually with the definite article
sex
object: One who is regarded exclusively as an object of sexual interest
sexologist:
One who studies sex or the interactions of the sexes
sexual:
Pertaining to sex; distinguished or founded on the sex
sexual
harassment: Uninvited and unwelcome conduct directed at anyone because of his
or her sex
Note:
False allegations of sexual harassment are one of the most potent weapons in
the feminist arsenal used in the gender war. It is a weapon that men neither
use nor hardly ever can avail themselves of. The feminist dominated courts hold
that women don't rape, kill, molest, abuse or harass. Women are considered to
be innocent under all and any circumstances. The insidious nature of
allegations of sexual harassment is that no absolute and objective standards
exist by which it can be determined whether sexual harassment occurred, or by
which one can measure its degree of severity. Usually a woman's allegations of
sexual harassment, even if uncorroborated by any evidence or witnesses, are
taken at face value, unless the accused man can prove that he was elsewhere and
not in the presence of the accusing woman at the time he was to have been
engaged in harassing her. Even that is often ruled out as admissible evidence
and the accuser's word made superior to that of any witnesses a man may be able
to produce.
Furthermore,
what may be a man's nightingale can easily be perceived, or claimed to be, the
woman's owl or nightmare. It matters little whether the perceived harassment is
a figment of her imagination or a product of her maliciousness.
What
aggravates the aspects of sexual harassment allegations is that in many
localities it is a criminal offence to sexually harass. In Canada is has been
assigned to the same criminal category as rape, to the category of sexual
assault.
Therefore
"rape statistics" in Canada now encompass criminal convictions for
offences that range from uncorroborated charges of leering at a woman in a
public swimming pool to rape with aggravated assault and murder. That had a
fine effect. It raised statistics for incidents of "rape" to dizzying
heights.
sexuality:
State or quality of being sexual
sexualize:
To distinguish as sexed, to raise sexual awareness, to make sexual
sexual
orientation: According to the traditional perspective, one of two possible
self-images an individual may have of himself (normally correlating to one's
own sex); and according to more liberal views, one of a multitude of sexual
preferences one may adopt during his life time, preferences that are not the
outcome of one's biological constraints but rather of one's preference with
respect to how to obtain sexual excitation and gratification (e. g.: fetishism,
homosexuality, pedophilia, sodomy, coprophilia, pederasty,
sado-masochism,
transsexualism, etc.); syn. see GENDER
sodomist
SODOMITE
sodomite:
One who practices sodomy — sodomitic or sodomitical adj.
sodomy:
Unnatural non-coital (anal, oral or manual) copulation with a member of the
same or opposite
sex or with an animal
sex toys:A sex toy is a term for any object or device that is primarily used in facilitating human sexual pleasure. This term can also include BDSM apparatus
Sadism.
Receiving sexual stimulation by giving pain, usually during foreplay. See
"Masochism" .
Safe sex. A misnomer which
involves wearing a condom during homosexual or heterosexual intercourse as a
means of avoiding contracting an STD. There is no "safe" illicit sex.
The failure rate of the best condoms is estimated to range between 10 and 20
percent.
Semen. The fluid which
contains the sperm as it is ejaculated from the penis during the husband's
orgasm.
Sexual activity. This is the
term that should have been used by the court in the Paula Corbin Jones/Clinton
matter. Any activity or combination of activities designed to cause sexual
excitement which, if continued, will cause orgasm for one or both parties.
Sexual activity includes but is not limited to: oral sex, vaginal intercourse,
stimulating [with the hands or mouth] the penis of the man or the breasts and
vulva of the woman.
Sexual immorality. A general
term in scripture referring to intercourse between unmarried persons;
fornication.
Sexual intercourse,
conjugation. Inserting the husband's erect penis into the wife's vagina,
usually associated with thrusting to the point of orgasm.
Sexually-transmitted diseases
(STDs). Any disease, such as AIDS, which can be passed to another person during
sexual activity. The classic STDs are syphilis and gonorrhea. A common modern
STD is genital herpes.
Sperm. The husband's
contribution to conception. Sperm can "swim" to unite with the wife's
egg after being ejaculated into her vagina.
Spermacide. A birth control
product designed to kill the sperm in the vagina before they can reach the
wife's egg.
Sexual Dysfunction: Physical and mental difficulties with arousal, lack of desire, fear of intimacy and overactive sexual activity. Difficulties may be persistent, recurring or once in a lifetime. See also Erectile Dysfunction.
Sadism,
sadist- Sexual pleasure that results from pain, humiliation and/or domination.
The sadist delivers pain or humiliation to the people desiring it by respecting
their limits and by being caring and careful.
Sadomasochism, SM- Sexual
practices in an advanced level where pain , humiliation and power exchange are
being used. SM has also dominance and submission, bondage and discipline, love
bondage and erotic spanking.
Safe, sane and consensual-
In the SM community are characteristics of acceptable play. During activities,
players take safety precautions or they do not participate in practice that
could injure mentally or physically their partners. Before the activities they
consent by negotiating.
Scene- The SM or fetish
community or a SM session or occurrence during play.
Slave- A submissive that is
involved in a slave/master fantasy.
Slave training-The
instruction of a submissive in a dominant's preference . The submissive's
behavior is conditioned.
Spanking- Striking or
paddling a submissive in their butts.
Switch- When a person trades
places in a SM role or physical play. Ex: top or bottom, dom or sub. It is also
a tree or bush branch used for corporal punishment.
Sexual
Orientation: Sexual identification, depending on a person's sexual
relationships or affinity.
Significant Other: One's
chosen romantic partner.
Smash: A young woman's crush
on another woman. The term was used in late nineteenth century and early
twentieth century women's colleges.
sixty-nine
term for a sexual activity
in which two people simultaneously stimulate each other's genitals orally
scrotum
pouch containing testicles:
the external pouch of skin and muscle containing the testes in mammals. It
allows sperm to develop at a temperature lower than that of the body.
sound:transitive verb
medicine examine something with probe: to use a surgical probe to examine a
body cavity or passage such as the bladder or to dilate a constriction
submissive:ready to submit to others: giving in or tending to give in to the demands or authority of others
scrotum:
The scrotum is a sac that hangs behind and below the penis, and containts the
testes, the male sexual glands. The scrotum's primary function is to maintain
the testes at approximately 34 C, the temperature at which the testes most
effectively produce sperm.
seminal vesicles: The
seminal vesicles produce semen, a fluid that activates
and protects the sperm after
it has left the penis during ejaculation
smemga: A substance with the
texture of cheese secreted by glands on each side of the frenulum in
uncircumsized men.
SEXUALOVE- The synergic fusing of love and sexuality into a single erotic emotion in an intimate relationship.
stuffing
= inserting objects into vagina or anus
snuffing
= sex play which results in death; e.g., a snuff scene involves someone
being killed while involved
in [painful or violent] sexual activities
S & M = Sadistic and
Masochistic sexual stimulation (sadomasochism)
SECONDARY
RELATIONSHIP- An ongoing sexualove relationship in which the partners usually
do not live together, and do not consider their relationship a first priority.
SERIAL MONOGAMY- The most
common lovestyle in the US today. Consists of being married to one partner at a
time with frequent changes in partners.
score = to obtain sexual favors or intercourse
snatch = (1)vulva/vagina, (2)copulation or sexual interaction in general, (3)a sexually attractive man or woman
sorted = arrangements have been completed
slut =
person who seeks for and/or participates in indiscriminate sexual behavior, but
usually not in reference to being for hire
suck face or smackin’ or mackin’ = deep kissing, French kissing, tongue kissing foreplay: necking, petting, make out, scoring, operating, play around or fool around, dry humping, playing "doctor," get serious, get down to business, get hot or hot & bothered, warm up, pre-game show, taxi for take-off
sympathy-fuck aka mercy-fuck = sexual activity initiated or motivated by pity rather than by arousal, love, or financial gain (e.g., a wife gives sex only because husband looks sad, or a prostitute doesn’t charge for sex due to feeling sorry for client)
RAPE: FORCIBLY PERFORM
SEXUAL INTERCOURSE
RECTUM: THE TUBE BETWEEN
THE COLOR AND THE ANUS
RIM: TO USE THE TONGUE ON
THE ANUS
ROD: THE PENIS
RUBBER: A CONDUM